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«Network better»: the book

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Network better is my new book on business networking

1
To describe what to do—explicitly to state best practice, providing readers with approaches, techniques and tools which they can use to network more effectively and, thereby, bring in more clients.

2
To give readers an understanding of, and insight into, what emotional intelligence is, and how it is essential for optimum networking.

3
Crucially, the book explains why these instructions and not other ones.

If someone is at all resistant to the instructions and there is the slightest perception that the instructions are not working, they are likely to reject them, ignore them.  They will decide that they know better and do something different, something more in their comfort zone.  Often this does not succeed.

If they know what is going on for them and for other businesspeople, and they understand why, they are empowered to network better.

4
To face up to the reasons why people are resistant to some or all of this, and to provide help in overcoming resistances. Although a book in itself cannot overcome someone’s resistance, it can do its damnedest to help them do the overcoming.

5
To help them understand why it doesn’t always work.

6
To amuse and entertain.

Contents

ONE : FUNDAMENTALS
1  Introduction
2  What is networking, really?
3  Some misconceptions rubbished
4  It’s just about people
5  It’s just about relationships

TWO : RAISING YOUR GAME
6  Be clear why you’re there
7  You need a ‘portfolio’
8  You need stories
9  What you should be doing at the event
10  Getting the most from a conversation

THREE : So how come it’s not working?
11  Follow the rules
12  Improve your attitude
13  Improve your tactics
14  You’re not doing it right
15  People don’t seem to ‘rate’ you

FOUR : WHAT COMES NEXT?
16  One to one meetings
17  Conclusion

Related material:
>  Network better:  the pitch

by Jeremy Marchant . © 2016 Jeremy Marchant Limited . amended 16 september 2019

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